[Freya Jhon]

You’ve become nothing more than a ‘convenience’ for him someone who is always there, no matter how he treats you. If you don’t respect your own worth, why should he? He leaves you crying on the street because he knows with absolute certainty that you’ll be the one calling him back. Please stop the calls. Go completely silent.
Wasting tears on a man like this is a tragedy. Being single is a thousand times better than enduring this kind of mental torture.

[Freya Jhon]

You’re sitting in the “Waiting Room” while she’s standing right by the “Exit Door.” When someone tells you, “I’m not ready for anyone right now, but I still like you,” they are essentially giving you breadcrumbs of hope just to keep you from leaving. It’s a massive ego boost for her, but for you, it’s a complete waste of time.
In my view, the pressure of children and a divorce is very real, but you aren’t some “spare part” she can pick up whenever she feels like it and throw back on the shelf when she’s done.
Show some self-respect. Back off entirely and let her come to you. If she’s actually serious about you, she’ll make the move.

[Freya Jhon]

Your greatest power right now is disappearing. No texts, no ‘accidental’ run-ins. Let him believe you’ve completely forgotten about him. Once you’re totally out of sight, he might finally start thinking, ‘Oh, maybe she wasn’t that crazy after all.
Listen, if you ever run into him again months from now, just give him a slight smile and keep walking. There’s no need to bring up anything from the past. Your silence will confuse him, and when things have gotten this messy, confusion is always better than desperation.
April was also right: It’s not a rule that everyone you like has to like you back. Move on and find someone actually interested in you.

[Freya Jhon]

Ask April correctly pointed out that the problem isn’t actually miscommunication, but rather the man’s reaction and his stubbornness.
You are a beautiful 19-year-old girl, and he is a 40-year-old man who is taking out his insecurities on you. Dear, a relationship is only sexy when both are equal. If he is gaslighting you, then it’s time to do something else. Do you really want to be with a man who doesn’t dare to admit his mistakes?

[Freya Jhon]

Yes, you cheated, but it’s not a “penalty” rap or public humiliation. Cheating is a mistake, but the real thing is trauma. By mixing the two, he is giving you a guilt trip.
And Ask April was right that you should focus on your children. You both have children of your own, so living in such a mentally ill environment is not good for the children either.
Staying with someone who turns your pain into a tool for their own ego is slow-motion suicide. So Move on

[Freya Jhon]

Oh, sorry, you are imprisoned in a golden cage. You might be living the lifestyle of a Queen, but your actual status is not as an Employee
I think you should start packing. When he feels that the Queen is getting out of hand, he will take action. If not,
sister!
At the age of 36, you can still be a hot property. Don’t waste your time on this 48-year-old comment phobe who wants to make a showpiece out of you.

[Freya Jhon]

Sorry for that, but this girl really should have waited for you. If she gets lonely and goes to someone else after being away for a month, how will she stand up to the hardships of life tomorrow? Relationships are all about waiting for each other and being loyal.
Once trust is broken, it will never be the same again. You will always doubt her every time she picks up the phone or you go out. And this ruins the peace of life.

[Freya Jhon]

I read your post, and it seemed very strange to me. Now, you should not only end the conversation with him, but also block this man’s number and close every way he can reach you. As long as the window is open, he will come back.
And AskApril is right here, that you have to decide in this moment what kind of woman you want to be in the future. If you are ashamed of your reflection, then quit the thing that makes you ashamed.
So you have to focus on my husband and children. Keep your mind busy so that old memories don’t bother you.

[Freya Jhon]

Bro, 50 girls? This is not dating, it’s an “internship”. Nick, you are an addict of new relationship energy and don’t want love; you want a dopamine hit as long as there is a girl you enjoy it with as soon as things get old, you have to work hard, and you run away from it.
You are getting physical but not getting close on an emotional level. It is easy to sleep with someone, but difficult to share your worries and weaknesses with someone.

[Freya Jhon]

I was very saddened by your post that the person you trusted so much broke your trust and hurt you.
You did the right thing by blocking him, but you have to take care of your safety.
If the guy tries to contact you again or threatens you, you should immediately take legal action.
You shouldn’t worry, this doesn’t diminish your nobility or honor. Someone’s cruelty doesn’t define your character.

[Freya Jhon]

Life is yours, not your mother’s. Meeting a mature woman is no less than a lottery. She knows your soul and your body, too. If with her you get that fire and peace that no one else has, then you should shoot the world.
Your mother is temporarily angry; she will recover on her own. If you listen to her and leave her to her, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Be a man, take a stand, and claim your queen.

[Freya Jhon]

If he were really interested, he would have said, “I’m moving out so that we can finally date,” but she said, “I don’t want to lead you on.” There’s a difference between the two.
You have 2.5 more years. If you don’t stop pinging now, you will ruin both your career and your mental peace.
He is backing away. Let him go. If he wants you, he knows where to find you (and he won’t have the roommate excuse anymore).

[Freya Jhon]

I read the whole post and was very impressed by April’s fairly sound, responsible advice, especially on safety.
You should stop having unprotected sex soon because the real danger of pregnancy and STDs has already come to light.
Having unprotected sex is putting your future at risk. If you do have sex, safe sex is a must. No excuses.
I think you should talk to the boy openly. You want to stop having sex with him now, and then check what the boy’s reaction is. If the boy shows respect and patience, then feelings can be there. If he puts pressure or moves away, then you understand that for him, it wasn’t your feelings or you that were important, only sex was important.

[Freya Jhon]

If you’ve only had sex three times in six months and despite the girl’s efforts, it’s not making a difference, then it could be sexual incompatibility.
I think you two could be better off just being good friends.

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