[Eric Morgan]

Stop chasing him. make yourself so perfect that he realizes what he has lost. Once they see you settled, happy, and absolutely glowing, their new partner will be looking like a major downgrade.

[Eric Morgan]

Your story is quite a tangled school drama where the boundary lines have become blurred.
You are wasting your time; this guy has become a “group project” for all of you. Cancel this project and get your self-respect back. The real fun is when he comes after you, not when you wait for his touch.
And AskApril was absolutely right that Look elsewhere and realize your own worth and find someone who is actually serious about you, not a guy who’s just playing the whole.

[Eric Morgan]

I appreciate AskApril’s expert advice, and she was right that you should talk to him openly about what you saw on his phone. “You won’t take the weight off my mind until you tell me”. Talking about this might make him tell the truth.
So you shouldn’t have moved on with this guy so quickly. Six months isn’t enough to get to know him anyway, especially when there are such big doubts.

[Eric Morgan]

Brother, when someone says that he feels light without you, it means that you have become a burden to him. Sending emails and crying out of emotion only lowers your value. The rule is simple. Open the door for those who want to go.
Stop crying and focus on your looks and career. When she comes across a leveled-up version of yours on (social media or anywhere else), then she will realize what he has lost. Until then, stay off the radar and keep your mystery alive.
And AskApril was right, that five years doesn’t mean you should dedicate your entire life to someone who doesn’t care about you.

[Eric Morgan]

You’ve broken up twice already. First, think about whether the pressure of university is over now. If tomorrow you have another workload, will you run away again? Unless you learn stress management, you may make the same mistake again.
Ask April was right when she said that trust only comes back when time passes. When we are afraid, time seems like an enemy, but time heals the wounds.
You need to work on yourself. Vulnerability is a skill that takes time.

[Eric Morgan]

You used the word “scary.” The first thing you would confirm is whether there is any domestic violence or a threat of violence. Alcoholism often causes anger, so safety comes first.
I think it’s hard to fight alone in such cases. You should talk to a counselor or family elder who can talk to your partner.

[Eric Morgan]

The girl has put herself on the moral high ground by calling you friends, but she doesn’t want to lose your attention. When she calls without panties or sends pics of herself, she’s playing with your emotions. She wants you to miss her, but she doesn’t want to take a commitment.
And Ask April was right that maybe the girl is taking revenge or just enjoying the attention. You should move on and explore new options.

[Eric Morgan]

So you shouldn’t be afraid of this “M” but be better than her. If she gave him a $60 gift, send him something that will remind him of you.
And Ask April was absolutely right that in long distance, there are no rules, only fractions. Either play the game and win, or clear the way and give someone else a chance who can handle it. Be the woman he wants to come home to, not the warden he’s trying to escape!

[Eric Morgan]

Wow, Ask April, you’re right that men go where they’re made to feel good, and you need to be so good that he’ll be drawn to you.
Instead of fighting with that girl or teaching your boyfriend rules, you should see what he’s getting there that he’s not getting at home.
I think you should say it clearly. Either you set it up properly, or I should look elsewhere. Please stand up for yourself. Don’t ruin your mental health by getting caught up in emotional manipulation and shadowing groups.

[Eric Morgan]

You cooked for her, and she came back to have dinner with you. I think the green light is flashing.
Don’t let the momentum fade by overthinking it.
And also consider April’s expert advice! to impress her with your facial expression and voice, and read her body language to gauge her true feelings

[Eric Morgan]

You need to understand that while worrying about Holly because of her allergy is a good thing, showing up at her house feels more like ‘control’ than ‘care.’ It can make a girl feel like you are keeping tabs on her
Anyway, I don’t think it’s that big of a problem. If he doesn’t respond, you should focus your attention elsewhere. Insecurity is only compromised when your entire day depends on just one person’s reply.

[Eric Morgan]

I would like to say one thing here that I always like April’s advice because she looks at every situation in a very balanced and practical way. Creating a safe space for April and guiding someone so respectfully is truly admirable.
I agree with Ask April that you should go on the date she invited you to. It’s the perfect time to express that you wanted to take the lead yourself.

[Eric Morgan]

Its Not a love to run after anyone for 11 years, it could be obsession or ego, the girl who kept you hanging around, she probably doesn’t love you, but the attention you give her, so my dear, be careful, old memories often seem more beautiful than reality.
I like April’s practical and somewhat neutral approach, and she’s right that moving at 28 is a big step, and maybe you are not ready for that commitment either, so you remember your “bachelor lifestyle
I think you need to give yourself space and think more deeply about where your feelings are going.

[Eric Morgan]

Listen Closely. This guy is no mystery; he’s a classic, a tension seeker who likes a little something. He showed you everything you wanted to see. The perfect family man, provider, and exclusive boyfriend. But as soon as he felt he had won your heart, his addiction wore off.
I agree with Ask April! That he’s coming back now because you didn’t behave crazily. So he thinks you’ll tolerate his behavior.
If you want to date him again, slow down and keep your options open.

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