[Amelia]

This is not love; it is just an “Owner’s Ego” problem. This guy has only sympathy for his current girlfriend and an obsession for his ex-girlfriend.
I think it is ridiculous for you to be upset about your ex being interested in other guys, while you yourself have been ruining the life of another girl for a year! This is the height of hypocrisy. I think you should leave both girls. You should be alone for a while and understand that a girl is not a “trophy” to be displayed in a closet and taken out when the mood strikes. Until you understand the difference between physical sickness and your ego, you will not be able to find peace, even if you bring in a third girl.

[Amelia]

Wow! The way AskApril handled this situation is truly admirable. People often get angry at such questions or start moral policing, but April Masini bravely endured her husband’s foolishness and guided him until he filed for divorce.
First of all, I think the very fact that a man agreed to “escort” his wife (even if it was only to events) was actually the death of the relationship.
Your wife was not forced into it, but she got used to the glamour and attention that she could not get from you. You should not be sad that she left, but that you yourself should be sad that you pushed her into “prostitution”. AskApril is absolutely right that “Live in a small house, but live in peace.” No matter how big a palace is, without blessings and honor, it is actually a prison.

[Amelia]

In a new relationship, people often mistake every little mistake as a lack of love. If the appointment was scheduled for 7 pm instead of 5 pm, it doesn’t mean Mr. Z doesn’t love; it just means they need a Google Calendar!
You shouldn’t forget to take a stand for yourself just for the sake of being a Gentleman. Communication doesn’t mean that one person should always be the one apologizing; it’s about confirming the meeting time on WhatsApp beforehand so that Trixie doesn’t get frustrated while waiting.
You should tell Trixie, I consider you a priority, but I’m not a mind reader!

[Amelia]

It was a year-long relationship, not a two-day Tinder match. Gerwin’s problem is that you’re trying to move on, but it’s not moving. When you try to force yourself to move on, your mind re-plays old memories at double speed. You’re not missing Keisha, you’re missing the “comfort” you got all year.
I think you need “processing”, not “distraction”. Playing games isn’t the solution to getting Keisha out of your mind. Until you truly feels and digests this pain, you will keep seeing Keisha in every new girl you meet.
By the way, it’s better to focus on your career at 23; otherwise, Keisha is already gone, and your promotion will slip away too!

[Amelia]

Sorry, karyall jane is right, but the 2 months are the “honeymoon phase”. If someone starts playing during this phase, it’s not stress, but a trailer for the real movie.
We often think that if someone likes movies or games as we do, they are our “soulmate”. In reality, liking thriller movies and shooting in anger are two different things. Coffee and gaming can be shared hobbies, but sharing character is more important.
These two things are creating a strange pattern together. Distraction means his mind is elsewhere, and shooting means he is running out of patience with you.
Dear, it’s not overthinking, it’s your gut feeling that is warning you. Stress happens to everyone, but not everyone shoots at their partner. Tell him once, patiently, “I don’t like your way of talking.” If he blames you instead of apologizing, then understand that this is not a red flag; it’s a red carpet.

[Amelia]

You said that ‘I’m trying to improve myself’, which is often a lie we give ourselves. No one ‘improves’ in two weeks. You are actually improving your packaging to show your ex, look what you’ve lost. Real improvement happens when you work not to get your ex back, but to be better in the next relationship.
The best way to get back in touch is not to improve, but to make him realize that your life is great without him. As long as he doesn’t miss you, the attraction won’t rebuild. Two weeks is too soon; he hasn’t even breathed a sigh of relief yet!
AskApril, what is your opinion on this? Do you agree with my opinion? We are waiting for your expert advice.

[Amelia]

It’s only been a month. People are showing their best version at this time. I think you are rushing into this because you’ve started to really like him, but the guy is just passing the time right now
You should have an open and honest conversation with him; getting clarity is much better than staying in doubt.
If asking questions turns a guy off, it means he was never serious. Waiting for the “right time” is often a waste of time.

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