[Justin Jade]

Nothing is impossible in this world because everything changes, including his feelings—so yes, it’s possible that can change too.
But right now, what you need to figure out is what you really want. Do you want to just be friends, or do you want something more serious and romantic?
Because if you want something romantic, you need to step out of the “friend zone” dynamic you’ve been in. But if you only want friendship, then you should avoid flirting with him.

[Justin Jade]

It’s only been a week since your breakup, and that’s really hard—especially since from the very beginning of your relationship, you’ve always been together.
But you need to accept and respect his decision. This is also a good opportunity for you to reflect and think clearly, rather than forcing things while everything is still emotional and messy.
It would be better for both of you to focus on yourselves first. Especially for him, he may need this time to rebuild his confidence before entering into a relationship again.

[Justin Jade]

Yes, that really isn’t a proper relationship, so there’s no need to justify it. Even if you don’t want to call it a fling, the setup itself is not healthy and it can be emotionally draining.

It would be better to just break up completely rather than stay in an on-and-off relationship for whatever reason.

[Justin Jade]

Don’t agree to that. He needs to choose only one. Don’t put yourself in a complicated situation because it will only bring problems.

Also, you’ll end up losing in that setup if you allow him to go back to his ex while still keeping you around. My advice is to step back for now and let him think clearly about what he really wants.

If he doesn’t choose you, don’t chase him anymore—just move on. You will still meet other people who can give you a better, healthier kind of relationship, one that can truly give you what you deserve

[Justin Jade]

It’s common nowadays that many young people think being cocky and arrogant makes someone look cool or “manly.” They feel like that gives off a tough or masculine image.
On the other hand, calm, polite, and kind guys are sometimes seen as weird or nerdy—but that’s not always the case. It really depends on age, maturity, and a person’s perspective in life.

[Justin Jade]

As a guy, you should be the one taking the initiative, regardless of whether you think she likes you back or not. If you really like her, it shouldn’t matter right away whether she’s interested in you. What matters is making an effort to get to know her and giving her reasons to like you.
Try to make a good impression, be thoughtful and kind, and take the time to learn more about her. Once you’ve built some rapport, ask her out on a date. If she agrees to go, that’s a good sign and there’s a strong possibility that she’s interested in getting to know you better as well.
Instead of focusing on whether she likes you right now, focus on showing genuine interest and creating opportunities for the two of you to connect.

[Justin Jade]

I think what you both need right now is some time apart to sort things out in your lives. This can be a good opportunity for self-reflection. Take some time to think about where you may have made mistakes and what changes or adjustments you need to make. Also, carefully consider whether your relationship is still worth fighting for. Ultimately, that decision is yours to make. Use this space and time wisely so you can think clearly and make the best decision for yourself.

[Justin Jade]

I think he is determined and it seems that he truly loves you. I believe this relationship is worth investing in. You just need to understand that he also has other responsibilities, such as his job. He needs to focus on that as well for your future together. In fact, he is willing to marry you just so you can be together, so I don’t think you have anything to worry about.

[Justin Jade]

It’s very difficult to rebuild trust once it’s been broken. That’s why, from now on, you need to make sure that you’re completely honest with him. You should learn from your mistakes, especially since you’ve already seen the consequences of what happened. At this point, the best thing you can do is be consistent, show that you’ve changed, and prove that you’ve learned from your mistakes and genuinely regret them. If he can’t see or accept that you’ve changed, there’s not much more you can do. Trust takes time to rebuild, and it’s ultimately up to him whether he’s willing to give it another chance. For now, all you can do is hope that, with time, he starts to become the person he was before and that your relationship can heal.

[Justin Jade]

That does seem a bit weird. If his actions are making you uncomfortable or giving you a bad feeling, I think you should talk to him about it for your own peace of mind. If you don’t, you’ll probably keep overthinking, and that’s not healthy for either you or your relationship. It could simply be a hobby or part of his self-improvement journey and may not mean anything else. But it’s also possible that your instincts are picking up on something. The best thing you can do is have an honest conversation with him so you can get some clarity and stop wondering.

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