Ex Boyfriend Question

Your interest in what your ex-boyfriend said to a business colleague is frankly, none of your business, and I tell you that especially because you’ve admitted to harassing your ex. You need to stop focusing on him and move on. It doesn’t matter what he said to anyone else — it only matters what he says and does to and with you. Because you’re broken up it’s important for you to focus your energy elsewhere and forward.

I hope you can get back out there and look for Mr. Right without mucking up your last relationship after it’s expiration date!

Okay, you want tough, here it comes: What he says about you is not something you can control. Frankly, you can’t control what ANYONE says about you, so it would behoove you to quit trying. You’re just creating drama and heading back towards harassment mode. 😮

You and your boyfriend broke up, and although you didn’t tell me who broke up with who, I’m guessing he dumped you due in part to your harassing him. Be respectful of the break up and stop dramatizing a relationship that is over. Harassment is serious and you should try and look for a healthy relationship — not one where third parties are involved as means to manipulate your partner and vice verse.

Stop looking for people like me to tell you you’re right because what you’re just being a drama queen. 😳 In answer to your questions: Who cares if he was deceitful?? He’s your [i]ex-[/i]boyfriend so stop worrying about his character. He’s not part of your life any more. Who cares if he lied to hide your relationship?? He’s your [i]ex-[/i]boyfriend, so it doesn’t matter what he did to you in the past. It’s over. Move on. Who cares if it’s insulting to hide you? It’s over. Stop worrying about something in the past. Instead, focus on [b]your[/b] own behavior. You need to let go and learn how to let go more easily. Start today, start now.

Stop talking and writing about your ex-boyfriend altogether. Start looking for ways you can date other men, not your ex.