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October 4, 2010 at 1:06 am #3209
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ParticipantOkay, so we’re not dating, but I’ve thought about *him* without fail for the past like, 4 months, now. We used to date, off and on, since I was barely 13. The last time we *dated* was around this time, last year, and I was rebounding from an ex and it didn’t last long. He has NEVER turned me down when he didn’t have a girlfriend. And I cheated on him with mine last year. And every time I’m dating a /different/ guy, HE is ALL I think about. But, I did move, but this year, he’s moved to a town that’s about 10 minutes away. We’ve been texting infrequently but I still haven’t yet to tell him that I even miss him. He said last week that we should hang out sometime. ALL of his friends hate me, and ALL of my friends hate him. I need to know either how to handle this, and conjure up the courage to tell him how I feel, or forget about him completely, though, I don’t see that happening… October 4, 2010 at 10:18 pm #15815April Masini
KeymasterFirst of all, it’s very strange that all your friends hate him and all his friends hate you. 😯 Why??Second of all, don’t come out and tell him how you feel. Be the flirt who gives him something to chase after so he wants to find you and spend time with you.
😎 Lastly, decide if he’s someone you want to just fill the time with because there’s no one better in your life, or if he’s someone you want to focus on. It sounds like you enjoy drama and cheating with him or dating him between boyfriends or girlfriends is fun and a little dramatic, too!
I hope that helps. Let me know what happens.
And join me on Facebook. Here’s that link:
[url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001113133958[/url] October 7, 2010 at 2:09 am #16598cyrix
ParticipantThe whole point of a relationship is for companionship and so you don’t have to spend time alone through life, so when your other half leaves, you lose most of that. But, if the two of you have decided to stay together keep the communication alive, send reminders to each other why you fell in love in the first place and why you decided to stay together across the distance. -Keep in Contact
In today’s modern age keeping in touch is almost too easy. We have cell phones, email, instant messaging and social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace to stay in contact with friends and family across long distances. So saying “I Miss You” can be done multiple types of ways through different devices.
But, don’t overwhelm the other person with 20 “I Miss You” posts on their Facebook page in one day. This will most likely start pushing the other person away as they may start to feel smothered even with you far away, which is the opposite of what you want to do. Keep the “I Miss You” messages to a minimum and talk to each other the same way that you did before you parted.
-Care Package
You can send all of the cute messages and posts that you would like on the Internet and cell phones, but nothing beats getting something through the mail still. For a very special “I Miss You” put together a care package with the other person’s favorite stuff or items that only the two of you know why they are important. You can also send a care package just because or for one of the many holidays during the year.
Cards with printed out pictures of friends and family also say “I Miss You” and the pictures will tell the other person that you understand that you are not the only thing that they may miss since they left.
-Plan a Visit
If you are able to, plan a trip for the person back home to come out and see you. This will give you both something to look forward to and being able to see each other will be a refresher as to why the two of you are still in a relationship. Of course, it could also be a time to realize that the person who you were with before has changed into a different person since you have been apart. So a visit can also be a good time for the two of you to sit down and talk about whether your long distance relationship should continue.
October 8, 2010 at 3:57 pm #16707KeymasterWow, interesting advice, [b]cyrix[/b] !I hope you’ll all join me on Facebook at this link:
[url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001113133958[/url] 😀 -
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