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Iam confused,broken. Please help me

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  • October 22, 2016 at 5:36 am #7992
    lucky3ram
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    We have been in love past 2years.I only proposed him.We use to be the best pair.Then gradually he started ignoring me,avoiding me.At first I didn’t get to know why??
    Once I saw his chat with friend saying his friend “Don’t tell lucky that Iam using mobile.Pretend as if don’t use a mobile”.
    Then I asked him about that, he then told that yes Iam avoiding you because my parents doesn’t agree for our wedding. So its better to part.
    It lagged for 1yr. And the next year he started saying”I never loved you.I just liked you,but I didn’t know you would take the relation so serious!!”.
    I was shocked and fighted a lot.Then finally he agreed to marry me. I was so happy for that. Then he use to speak to me daily on call / chat.
    One day he asked my nude pictures..telling that we would marry so please send me and trust me.
    After 3 days , when I totally started trusting him I sent them to him.
    A month passed like this.Then he went his native for vacation,after meeting his family again the story is repeating.
    He started telling
    “I can’t marry you! Lets part”
    I never accepted and told him if he would leave me I would die.
    He said very painfully yes for relation.But he is not replying my calls,messages from past week(after that suicide discussion)
    Please help me with this.
    Iam from an orthodox family,more over I love him like hell.
    I couldn’t decide whether I should be happy? or he?
    And I really don’t know if family is only problem factor or else any other ?
    Please help me

    October 24, 2016 at 3:16 pm #35143
    April Masini
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    I’m sorry you’re in so much pain. Rejection hurts, and he is being very clear that he doesn’t want to be with you or marry you. My advice is that you accept this rejection and stop contacting him, so that you can heal from your disappointment and move on. For future, never chase a guy. Always let him do the chasing, and always let him propose — that’s how you know you’re with someone who truly wants to be with you. If he is the one doing the chasing and the asking, he’s going to want to win you over, and you’ll know that because it’s actually happening! 😉

    Again, I’m very sorry for your hurt, but the longer you try to convince him to stay with you, the worse this will be for you. Accept the rejection and move on.

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