You took two risks at once — and unfortunately, neither one paid off. 😳 First, office relationships are risky because when things don’t work out, you have to see the person every day. 😕 I know it’s awkward, but since you’re both in the same office, try and stay busy and focus on your life outside of the office, as well as the actual work in it. And second, remember that when you get involved with someone who is married, there’s always the chance you’re their rebound person or their distraction from marital problems. It sounds like he’s worked things out with his wife and now, it’s best for you to accept the disappointment and move on to focus on meeting new people to date so you don’t get stuck in an emotional rut pining over lost love. 😉