I don’t know what your question is — but it sounds like you just want to vent about your disappointment. 😳
I’m sorry you’re unhappy.
Your boyfriend of one year is married and doesn’t want to get divorced. 😕 You’re staying with him under these circumstances, hoping he’ll change. 🙄 So, let’s talk about you — and how to make you happy. 😉 If you want a boyfriend who is legally single and available to marry you, why not find one instead of staying with one who is married and wants to be. It’s important to know what [i]you[/i] want and what your deal breakers are in [u]any[/u] dating situation and if you don’t want to date someone who’s married, then you shouldn’t. Since he told you 2-3 months into the relationship, your option was to stay or go…. and you stayed. That was probably your basic mistake. When a guy shows you who he is, and you don’t believe him or you decide you’ll change him, you’re going to be unhappy. Now that you’re looking at him to change instead of at yourself, you’re frustrated. Turn your gaze inward, not outward. Ball’s in your court. He’s clear — you’re not. If you want to stay with him, then you have to accept that he’s going to remain married to someone else. If you want someone legally single, he’s not your guy.
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