[Rayan lee]

The more you fear that one percent (1%) thought, the more it will get into your head. ‘True love’ does not mean that your brain’s processor is locked on only one person. It’s the old movie saying ‘If it’s true love, why would you think of someone else’. In real life, the mind moves everywhere.
Remember, it’s not up to you to come up with a thought, but it’s your choice to cry over it. That Guy X is just a passing moment, and you are a ‘Queen’ living in your present. Stop ‘panic’ over such a small thing and enjoy your beauty and your relationship. And as for Ask April, flirting keeps a person alive.

[Rayan lee]

What’s the point of apologizing? You went to work, and you didn’t do anything wrong. If you apologize, you’re going to look ‘weak. Your life is busy, and you don’t have a shortage of options.
AskApril is right that, invite her somewhere impressive, like a dinner or a concert, and make it crystal clear that it’s a ‘Date,’ not just a hangout.

[Rayan lee]

You were just an “emotional bandage” for her. While she was hurting, you seemed so sweet and caring. As soon as she went home and remembered her old life or old memories, your value disappeared. Stop begging! It creates pity, and pity can never be the basis of love.
Now, when she comes back and asks to meet, don’t meet at all. She doesn’t need any explanation or closure, but your silence so that she realizes that you have completely blocked her from your life. Only when you disappear will she miss your “caring nature” that she used to get.
And AskApril is absolutely right that, given the long distance and the girl’s decision, you should accept this fact and find a girl who has completely come out of the pain of her old relationship and is ready for a new start.

[Rayan lee]

Stop cooking for him, doing his laundry, or staying up waiting for him to come home. Be a mystery, not an open book.
After 7 years and 2 children, you have probably lost your own identity. It’s time for you to change your look, meet new people, and make yourself so stunning and independent that he actually starts feeling the fear of losing you.
Once he realizes that you have better options and that you aren’t crying over his late-night excuses anymore, that’s when his ego will get a real reality check.

[Rayan lee]

This guy is not your friend, it’s your “past” that’s ruining your present. If friendship is wearing you down, it means you’re not healing each other; you’re making each other sicker.
So dear
Glow up in your life and give yourself enough “options” that he realizes what he’s missing. As long as you’re stuck in the ‘friend zone’, you won’t have any attraction or value.

[Rayan lee]

This guy is just keeping you as a ‘backup plan’. What he’s saying is, ‘If the baby is lost, I’ll come back. This is utter nonsense. Is he waiting for a tragedy to come back to you? Such a person has a bad mental state. You’re not a parking lot where he can park his car and come back whenever he wants.
You’re 32 years old, not some naive kid. Do you really want a man who is literally waiting for his own child’s demise just to be with you?
Raise your standards and get out of this toxic mess. Leave him to his ‘helpless’ ex; that’s exactly where he’s getting the punishment he deserves.

[Rayan lee]

Listen, you’re caring for her too much while she’s just ignoring you. It means you are far too “available.” When you’re always saying “Yes” and constantly listening to her old whining and drama, your status in her eyes becomes nothing more than “emotional support,” not a boyfriend.
Stop sending her those boring “Good Morning” texts. Tease her a little, flirt with her. She needs to feel like you aren’t just a “backup option” but that you are a prize in yourself. Someone who isn’t so easy to get.
And AskApril gave expert advice, saying that if you truly want to win her over, you need to “get in the game.” Figure out what it is about that other guy that the girl actually likes.

[Rayan lee]

Hi!!!!!
You might feel like ‘small breasts’ are the issue, but the truth is that attraction starts in the mind. If you keep focusing on a specific part of her body that you don’t find ‘perfect,’ you’ll never actually catch a vibe. Focus on the heat and chemistry between the two of you, rather than a checklist of body parts. Small can be incredibly sexy if the energy is right.
WAO, I like AskApril’s expert advice that just goes on dates, holds hands, and get to know each other. Intimacy is something that comes with practice. When you treat it like a goal you have to achieve, your sex drive naturally starts to fade away.

[Rayan lee]

This guy didn’t leave you because he loved his family so much, but rather because he was a coward. Men who end a relationship after a year of being together with one phone call could never be with you.
Here AskApril gave some expert advice: instead of crying, you should focus all your attention on yourself. Go to the gym, meet up with friends, start some new hobbies, and keep yourself busy so you can move past the pain.

[Rayan lee]

Smoking 6–8 times a day isn’t just a habit anymore; it’s a full-blown addiction. I’d suggest looking into a professional counselor or a rehab program instead of just ‘talking’ about it. At the same time, don’t forget to focus on your own self-care. if he is drunk and sleeping, go out with your friends or dive into your hobbies so you don’t end up feeling depressed yourself.
I think instead of having an emotional conversation, you should take a logical approach. He is a doctor, and it’s crucial to make him realize that he is risking his entire medical career.

[Rayan lee]

As long as you remain a “safe emotional pillow” for him, he will never make a move. In an LDR, guys often get lazy because they are getting all the emotional attention without having to work hard.
Follow AskApril’s expert advice: Stop being on his 24/7 Skype calls so he actually has a chance to miss you. Stop acting like ‘just a friend’ and start carrying yourself like his girlfriend

[Rayan lee]

A guy who is “complicated” in bed and “calculative” in his head won’t give you any fun in the long term. Either he’s all in, or he’s out.
AskApril was absolutely right. If there are so many problems in four or five months and he’s not making you feel good, then instead of fixing it, step back and think about whether you want a partner who doubts you or makes you uncomfortable.

[Rayan lee]

A “clean break” is best. Put the necklace out of your sight and move on with your life. Sending it back will only lead you back to the pain you are trying to escape.
Here, I would like to commend AskApril for saying that she was absolutely right in saying that a relationship should end on a good note

[Rayan lee]

You’ve been standing there for nine months, so he’s not afraid of losing you. As long as you remain an “option” for him, he’ll never give you priority.
You are doing yourself a disservice by being nice. When a man says he’s stopping due to financial issues or confusion, in 90% of cases, it means he’s not serious about you.
Ask April was absolutely right that giving him more time is a risk, especially since he’s been clear from the start that he isn’t ready.
So move on and don’t waste your time.

[Rayan lee]

Hi,
If your boss only likes your smile, then talk about the next salary increment now, but remember, there is a risk of drowning in this sea view. If your husband is waiting at home, then send the boss’s smile out of the office and only focus on your career.
And Ask April was absolutely right that you have to decide what you want. If you want to save your marriage, then be professional with the boss. If not, then work on the divorce first. Clarity is essential to avoid chaos at both work and home.

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