[Stephen James]

That happens to many married couples. In my opinion, you won’t necessarily feel deeply in love with your spouse every single day. But in the end, it’s a matter of choice—choosing each other again and again, even when the feelings aren’t always as strong as they once were.

[Stephen James]

She’s clearly not interested in meeting up with you right now, so I think you should stop pushing the issue. Let her know that there’s no pressure and that you respect the fact that she may not be ready yet. If she still doesn’t respond after that, then it may be time to move on.

[Stephen James]

Well, it’s understandable that he’s angry. What you did was something serious and it really hurt him. You need to make it up to him, sincerely apologize, and reassure him that you’ll resolve the issues with your husband. Hopefully, you’ve learned from this experience and won’t repeat the same mistake. I hope he’ll be able to forgive you.

[Stephen James]

You chose to be with someone who is popular on your campus, and that’s one of the consequences that comes with it. If you know that he’s a good guy, then you need to trust him and try not to overthink too much, because honestly, that doesn’t help your relationship at all. Trust is very important in any relationship.

[Stephen James]

Don’t make yourself the victim, and stop trying to justify his behavior. It’s pretty clear that he’s just using you, so let him go. It’s really that simple. There are plenty of other people out there who will appreciate your worth and treat you the way you deserve.

[Stephen James]

You know, what you’re thinking is possible. However, don’t assume too quickly. It’s better to wait and let him be the one to tell you what his intentions are. Also, try not to rely too much on your instincts or assumptions, so you won’t end up getting hurt if things turn out differently than you expect.

[Stephen James]

Have you tried talking to him? Maybe he’s just busy with work. I don’t think it’s a good idea to make a sudden decision based only on your assumptions. Try talking to him first and ask if there’s any problem between the two of you. Tell him what’s been on your mind, including your fears that he might have met someone else, so that everything can become clearer for you.

[Stephen James]

Start doing the things that make him happy again. Take the initiative to spend quality time with him and make an effort to reconnect. It would also be a good idea for both of you to talk about any issues or problems you see that could harm your relationship, so that you can address and resolve them before they become bigger problems.

[Stephen James]

Just start with something you can talk about. With so many people you can interact with there, I’m sure you’ll eventually find someone you can connect with and build a friendship with.

[Stephen James]

It’s not true that if someone likes you, they should automatically be in a relationship with you. Some people simply have other priorities, and like she said, a relationship is not her priority right now. I think you should respect that. If you’re not happy with that kind of setup, you also have the choice to step back or walk away.

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