[Bea Celine]

Hi Sara Mara,
For me, a guy like him who is very disciplined and mission-driven, is the one who usually not really give attention for a relationships especially when they are under pressure like exams. some of them become emotionally open once stressful period have passed and they feel more stable. however, it’s also possible that his structured mindset will always fit around his life goals rather than the other way around.. The best for this is to keep things light for now and see if he will make an effort for you once his situation is not complicated.

[Bea Celine]

7 months of waiting is too much and his answer “waiting for the right time” is unacceptable. first of all, he’s the one who gave you an idea that he will give you a promise ring but now he can’t meant his words. Try to distance him so he could see your worth.

[Bea Celine]

Maybe he likes you but not ready for a commitment so he never ask you for a date. He’s contented on what you two treating each other. I think he’s not the right guy for you to be your boyfriend. Try to hung out with other friends and maybe your path will cross to someone who can ask you for a date and will to be your boyfriend.

[Bea Celine]

Just wait for him to contact you and make an effort to see you again. Don’t jump into conclusion that he might be not interested to you. Just go with the flow, getting to know each other and have a conversation if he initiated. Don’t do the first move, let the man to that because that is their job.

[Bea Celine]

Maybe you’re right, she doesn’t want to give you any details because she doesn’t want you to be bothered if that man she’s referring to is one of is friend. If you force her to tell you the who was it, she might be upset and feel uncomfortable because obviously she want it to keep as secret. Give her the privacy that she wants.

[Bea Celine]

Of course don’t do that! You’re not a dog to follow all his command. That is your body and you’re the only one who can decide what you want and don’t want to put on your body. If he really love you, he won’t push you to do such thing that makes you unhappy doing it. Don’t fool yourself and sacrifice your body just to make your boyfriend satisfied.

[Bea Celine]

The main problem is you boyfriend. Why you don’t even realized that you don’t deserve him because he doesn’t treat you well? Leave him and focus on your growth and find your own way of happiness. Protect your inner peace and don’t let anyone destroy it.

[Bea Celine]

Sex is not the foundation of your relationship so if you’re not comfortable doing it, it’s okay but ask your partner as well because sex is part of a relationship and that’s what we call “making love”. Just tell to your partner what’s makes you satisfied and understand his capability. Always make a communication open.

[Bea Celine]

Your ex obviously used you and hurting you a lot. I believe, he doesn’t love you and he doesn’t care about your feelings. He cares only for sex!! Step back and allow yourself to heal and find your own happiness without him. You deserve a respect and peace of mind. Be strong enough to move on.

[Bea Celine]

Never ever be contented with sex only! You deserve a formal date. Try to lie low from him for a while and see if he will miss you and if he’ll make an effort to be with you. Don’t make yourself cheap.

[Bea Celine]

Don’t give up if you feel that he really loves you. Be brave and fight for your love one. Don’t mind his parents if they don’t like you and they like the ex so much. Maybe because they love their grandchildren that’s why they showing love to the mother as well. Focus on your boyfriend and always have an open communication with him. Tell him what you feel and see if he will make an effort to make you feel secure.

[Bea Celine]

Honesty is the best policy. You have to be honest and tell her the situation you are facing and let her understand the story. Being transparent is a very nice way of showing loyalty and respect. Don’t keep secret to the woman you like.

[Bea Celine]

You can focus on yourself having a nice time and get to know him and want you really want, and tell him what you feel without acting on them. Not just because you are afraid, it doesn’t mean you should sabotage him. you can feel scared or talk about your feeling to a friend who can understand the situation.

[Bea Celine]

It’s unfair that he cheated on you and he stopped you to file a divorce. You have the rights to file a divorce especially when you’re not happy and betrayed, but always consider the feelings of your kids. Give yourself space and time to think wisely before making any decisions. I know you’re hurt but always choose what’s the best for your kids.

[Bea Celine]

Everyone is not a good kisser as early as having a first boyfriend. Don’t be nervous when you and your boyfriend are kissing. Just go with the flow and enjoy the moment. Don’t feel pressure on your response.

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