[Marco]

You need to talk to him—that is the most effective way to get answers to your questions. It’s important for couples to be open about everything related to their relationship.
A relationship is built by both of you, so you shouldn’t have to guess or assume things. Have a serious, honest conversation with him while it’s still early, so any issues can be addressed and resolved sooner.

[Marco]

Well, a big part of the healing process is avoiding communication with an ex. They’re the person you’re trying to forget, but you’re still staying in contact as friends.
It’s not always the case for everyone, but in most relationships, exes don’t really end up becoming friends—especially not right after a breakup. It often just makes the situation more complicated.
If what you want is to move on, you should avoid them. But if you’re still hoping to get back together, then you continue communicating and even flirting—that’s really how it usually goes.

[Marco]

If you want an honest answer, you should ask her directly. But to be honest, it’s still too early. For now, you should put in more effort—dating really works that way.
Nothing is guaranteed at the start, but what’s clear is that you need to invest first. It’s rare for things to become serious instantly. In your case, you really need to invest time, energy, and even money.

[Marco]

The first thing you should do is try to convince her that you are truly willing to change and that it will never happen again. If necessary, you may need to stop drinking, since alcohol and going out to bars were part of what led to the situation.

Do what you can to show her that you’re serious, so she can slowly start trusting you again. But of course, we still can’t know if she will forgive you—so for now, just do everything you can to make things right.

[Marco]

Well, I think first you can start with his basic personal information—like where he lives, how old he is, and whether he is studying or working, and where he works or studies.
Then you can move on to his hobbies, what he enjoys doing in his free time, and his favorite places to go.

[Marco]

Well, first of all, since you are partners, you have the right to ask and know where he is going. And if he truly has nothing to hide, he would let you touch or see his phone.
I’m not saying for sure that there is something going on, but we also can’t be certain that there isn’t. It would be better to have a serious, honest conversation with him about this issue so things can become clearer for you and so your worries can be reduced.

[Marco]

Well, you have to protect your emotions and your peace of mind, so it’s not wrong to ask for security in the relationship. You’re just trying to avoid getting hurt and making a mistake in the end.
It can be difficult if you don’t confront it, but if you do, you’ll likely get a more honest answer.

[Marco]

He is kind and caring, but then he suddenly disappears. That means he is not consistent.

Well, you’ve only been dating for a month, so my advice is to observe his behavior toward you more. And if you’re still not sure about him, don’t close yourself off to other people. That way, in the end, you won’t lose out.

[Marco]

Are you going to wait until something physical happens?
If there’s already flirting involved, that means something is wrong. You should start feeling concerned now. Talk to your husband because it is not normal for a married person to be flirting with someone else. It’s better to fix this now before it gets worse.
Also, think about whether there is something you might be lacking, which could be why your husband is feeling the need to flirt with someone else.

[Member]

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