[Sandra Nicole]

That’s difficult. It depends on a person’s mental capacity. There are people who can easily forgive and forget, while there are others who really can’t. The question is, which one are you?

[Sandra Nicole]

It’s really hard, isn’t it? When you miss him, all you can do is call him. You can’t hold him, hug him, or kiss him. You really want his presence, but you just can’t have it. It’s very difficult, but just think that it’s also for your future together.

Just stay loyal and don’t look for what he lacks in someone else so your relationship can last. Try to keep yourself busy sometimes so you don’t miss him too much.

[Sandra Nicole]

Maybe it’s because you’re both getting tired. When you’re tired, just rest. It’s also important to give each other time and attention—try to relax and go on a vacation so you can reduce stress.
You’ve only just gotten married. Are you really going to give up already when you already made it through 6 years together? 🙂

[Sandra Nicole]

Don’t just try to figure out if she likes you. If you’re a guy and you like her, tell her and take a step to show your feelings. Maybe because you’re just waiting, someone else might get ahead of you. You don’t know—there might already be a lot of guys who like her because she’s cute.

[Sandra Nicole]

It’s not really bad for him to relax; maybe he just wants to enjoy his bachelor life a bit. The fact that he even said he doesn’t have children yet could mean he still has plans for you both to have kids in the future. But that doesn’t mean what he’s doing is right. It might be better if you talk to him and tell him to limit that kind of behavior.

[Sandra Nicole]

If you can’t find a reason to say yes to him and you mostly see negative things, then it might be better not to accept him. Don’t enter a relationship when you’re unsure. Don’t wait for more red flags to show up.

Or you can talk to him about the things you don’t like, and if he doesn’t change, then it’s better to end his courtship.

[Sandra Nicole]

Just like I always say, it’s normal to have arguments like that, especially when you’ve been together for a long time. Sometimes you both just get tired of things, so it’s important to take a break. Or you can try having quality time together, like going on a vacation, so you can relax and feel refreshed.

[Sandra Nicole]

It’s normal that sometimes feelings fade, especially when you’ve had arguments or misunderstandings. Maybe you’re just feeling tired from everything, which is why the spark seems to be gone.

Why don’t you try to relax and go on a vacation? That way, at least you can feel lighter and also have more time for each other.

[Sandra Nicole]

Try to make her fall for you again, win her over, and give her gifts. Even if she gets irritated, it’s okay—just keep doing it repeatedly until you win her back. But if you ever get tired, take a rest. Don’t let yourself get drained because of her. You’ll still meet many other people anyway.

[Sandra Nicole]

Hello, why don’t you try joking with him like, “Why do you always want me to eat with you and watch your games? Do you have feelings for me?” Then observe his reaction—you might get your answer from that. It might not be a good idea to ask him directly because it could feel a bit inappropriate.

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