[Sachi]

Just be yourself and act naturally. Try to talk about things she’s interested in. Find out what those interests are first, and when you meet, bring up those topics. That way, the conversation will flow more easily and she won’t get bored.

[Sachi]

I don’t think that’s the kind of thing a friend would normally do, so I suspect that he really does have feelings for you.

[Sachi]

That’s really insensitive of him. Telling you to “just stay upset” comes across as very disrespectful, especially since you’re in a relationship. He could have explained himself in a kinder and more understanding way. In my opinion, no matter how persistent or emotional you may have been, that’s still not enough reason for him to speak to you like that. A loving partner should be able to communicate with respect, even when they’re busy or tired.

[Sachi]

Just move on if she doesn’t like you. Rejection is part of the process when pursuing someone, so don’t be too upset about it. It happens to everyone.

[Sachi]

Don’t think the worst right away. It may simply be that he’s genuinely busy with work these days and extremely exhausted, which is why he chooses to rest when he gets home. Instead, try setting aside a time when both of you are free so you can spend some quality time together. Don’t jump to conclusions or become overly suspicious right away.

[Sachi]

It’s possible that your suspicion is correct, but it’s also possible that you’re mistaken. If you want to know the truth, it’s better to be direct with your wife. Tell her honestly about your concerns and ask her to explain. From there, observe her response and see whether you feel she is being truthful or not. Open and honest communication is the best way to find out what’s really going on.

[Sachi]

Just keep going and trying, haha. Not all men are the same—you’ll eventually meet someone who is compatible with you.

[Sachi]

It really is awkward, but if you can’t do it even if it feels awkward, nothing will ever happen—you’ll just stay friends forever. Just say what you feel, even if it’s uncomfortable, because if you don’t do it now, someone else might get ahead of you, and you might end up just staying friends with her for the rest of your life.

[Sachi]

It’s not a bad thing to talk about marriage sometimes so you can plan things better, especially if that’s what you want. You’re already a couple, so there’s no “man or woman” issue here—you’re just discussing it. It’s not like you’re the one proposing.

[Sachi]

In your case, since you’ve been friends for a long time, it’s hard to say for sure. But it’s also not impossible that she likes you, because that often happens with friends—especially when you’re always together, feelings can naturally develop over time.

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