Should I give up or keep trying? :(

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July 5, 2012 at 7:31 pm #5516

sydney54607
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Me and this guy have been together for over a year. We love and care about each other a lot, but its really hard being in a relationship with him. Our lives are so completely different, his family doesn’t approve of us being together, and he’s so busy that he hardly ever has time for me. Lately I’ve been more depressed than happy with him… Missing him all the time and being disappointed when plans to see him fall through every single time. I just don’t know if I can do this anymore. I love him but it’s not working. Should I keep trying or not? Help…

July 6, 2012 at 5:46 pm #24758

April Masini
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How old are you both?

July 7, 2012 at 4:03 am #24905

sydney54607
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We are both 18.

July 10, 2012 at 8:33 pm #23907

April Masini
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It sounds like this relationship is being propped up and doesn’t have a life of it’s own. You have so many obstacles working against you (he’s too busy to see you much; your families don’t approve, you’re very different) that it seems like the best thing is to let go and move on. Relationships shouldn’t be this hard this early.

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