I was with my ex for a year and a half. Everything was great for the first year, but then things got pretty ugly. I had been going through his facebook and phone for a while and saw that he was talking to his exgirlfriend and other girls. He wasn’t really being flirty or anything, it is just the type of personality he has that makes it come off that way. I guess I got the idea that I wasn’t good enough for him anymore and went over-the-top crazy. He asked me to drop it all, and I promised him that I would. But I didn’t. In fact, I made things a lot worse. I started treating him like shit, kept bringing up the past, just all kinds of crap. We fought constantly for three months until we decided to take a break for a while. This was about four months ago, btw. He promised me that we would get back together eventually, that we would just have to trust each other while we were apart, that he felt like we belong together that’s why it all hurt so bad, etc. But when he moved everything changed. He started talking to girls right away and lied about it. How was I supposed to trust him when he was doing the same thing that made me go crazy before? So as you can guess I went even crazier. I took things way too far. I didn’t give him any kind of space at all, I pushed for answers, continued hacking his stuff until he finally changed his passwords. And as a result he started treating me like shit and then refused to talk to me. I admit, I shouldn’t have pushed as hard as I did, but the pain of losing him and all the lies just got to me and I couldn’t take it anymore. Even through all the crap we have been through I still love him and want to be with him. I believe that if he were to give me a second chance I could make things right. But, now he has a girlfriend. I really thought he felt the same way about me, I guess all my bs finally got to him though. I would give anything to get him back and show him that we ARE supposed to be together, but I think it’s a little late for all that now. I guess the point of this is to ask if there is any way possible to make things right and make him want to give me another chance. Or haveI completely ruined any chance of that ever happening again?
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