Is this abuse?

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    relationshipa1
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    Last night I accidentally scratched my boyfriend’s scrotum with a hangnail during foreplay. He asked me to be careful, I apologized, he accepted, and we kept going. I asked him to [i]gently[/i] caress my chest, which he did (he knows that I get really sore there before my time of the month). Normally he doesn’t really like to touch me too much during our “intimacy” so I was very turned on by being with him at this rare intimate and erotic moment.

    Suddenly he pinched my nipple REALLY hard, so hard that I almost started to cry. I said, “OW, DON’T” but then he squeezed my breast as hard as he could, crushing it. I screamed that it hurt and for him to stop. He actually laughed and said, “Now we’re even!”

    Then he resumed touching me again like nothing had happened, but I was so hurt and confused by his “revenge” that I couldn’t respond. When I told him to give me a minute and to please explain what just happened, he became extremely angry and rolled over, saying “it’s not even worth the drama.” I furiously demanded that he discuss why he just hurt me but he refused to talk and told me “just go to bed”. I don’t understand what happened here. Was I just abused?

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    April Masini
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    Your boyfriend has a mean streak, and he hurt you intentionally. My advice is to get out of the relationship and move on. There’s no reason to stick around and find out if he’s going to hurt you again — or, if you have kids, and one of them accidentally beans him in the head with a baseball or a toy, and he decides to hurt them in exchange to “get even”. Find the exit door today!

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