what to do now?? Help!!

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January 9, 2016 at 10:18 pm #831

Pretty
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Hi April!!
I had previously also seeked your help. Ill recap shortly.
I had a love marriage but inlaws created a lot of trouble since the start. Earlier my husband was supportive although we had fights but later on things got worse. My hubby is sexually incapable n a thorough listener n follower of his parents. We r separated since I got sick with Tb for about 8 months now. Me n my entire family has tried to contact him n his parents but either they disconnect our calls or not pick up only. He told to my uncle he would only talk to me so I called him n told him in coming down with my family to his house which is in the area he works. Now since iv told him in coming he is on leaves and sitting at his parents house. Our lawyer has suggested if we go and talk at his parents house things will go worse as his parents never wanted us married in the first place. So talking to my hubby where he lives is best. Also cause I the company he works my distant relative uncle is topmost boss therefore my hubby will not want a bad repo in office and will have to talk nicely as where he works n lives is a very small place and a mines area hence talks travel fast. But its been 18days he is still on leave. What do i do.

January 9, 2016 at 10:56 pm #13572

Pretty
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Hi April!!
I had previously also seeked your help. Ill recap shortly.
I had a love marriage but inlaws created a lot of trouble since the start. Earlier my husband was supportive although we had fights but later on things got worse. My hubby is sexually incapable n a thorough listener n follower of his parents. We r separated since I got sick with Tb for about 8 months now. Me n my entire family has tried to contact him n his parents but either they disconnect our calls or not pick up only. He told to my uncle he would only talk to me so I called him n told him in coming down with my family to his house which is in the area he works. Now since iv told him in coming he is on leaves and sitting at his parents house. Our lawyer has suggested if we go and talk at his parents house things will go worse as his parents never wanted us married in the first place. So talking to my hubby where he lives is best. Also cause I the company he works my distant relative uncle is topmost boss therefore my hubby will not want a bad repo in office and will have to talk nicely as where he works n lives is a very small place and a mines area hence talks travel fast. But its been 18days he is still on leave. What do i do.
A link to my earlier post will remind u of me: https://relationshipadviceforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=325551

January 10, 2016 at 2:05 pm #16421

April Masini
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Thank you for writing again. I appreciate your letting me know you’ve posted here before. Because so many people post here, it’s much easier if you simply post your new questions on the string you’ve already started here: https://relationshipadviceforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=325551&p=359241#p359241. That will activate the post so it goes to the “top of the pile” and I’ll see it!!

I’ll answer your new questions just as soon as you repost them. You can cut, paste and then “reply” to your old string of posts.

I’ll be looking out for it!

January 12, 2016 at 3:01 am #18247

caseyghatchell
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Hello Pretty, the problem you’re facing is almost similar to me. The only difference is my husband is supporting me all time, since his parents dumped us from their house. We are now living separately and things are good now. For you I’m feeling sorry, because this type of situation is very sad. And it hurts a lot. Don’t worry, be strong, and you tried your best.

If you husband is ignoring you, don’t lose hope. Get rid of him, find a job because busy, it’ll help you become stable in life. One day he’ll return to you, if your husband truly loves you.

January 12, 2016 at 7:05 pm #19327

April Masini
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Please re-post your comments on the original string this person started here: ~~[url]~~https://relationshipadviceforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=325551&p=359241#p359241[/url]. It helps to have the entire string of posts in one place. THANK YOU! 😀
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