[Sundus]

She’s only using you for “emotional support” whenever she feels like it, but the second you respond, she ghosts you. Stop playing this cat and mouse game.
You’ve become such a “nice guy” that she has zero fear of losing you. Keep two or three other options open, get out there, and show her that your life is actually happening without her.
Ask April gives expert advice that get back out there and start dating other women. Your value will only increase once you stop giving off the vibe that you’re available to her 24/7.

[Sundus]

You keep telling him, ‘Leave me alone,’ but every time he messages you, you respond. Your words are saying ‘no,’ but your actions are screaming ‘yes.’ You don’t even need to tell him you’re blocking him, just vanish. Silence is the loudest scream. Let him think you’ve dropped off the face of the earth or moved to a remote island.
AskApril was right that get so busy with your life, your school, and your friends, you don’t have a single second left for him. Start dating new guys so you can finally move on for good.

[Sundus]

Look, this ‘chemistry’ you’re feeling is nothing but the thrill of novelty. After five years and two kids, a relationship becomes comfortable, and when someone gets a little attention from the outside, they start mistaking it for ‘true love.
In my opinion, this ‘S’ is just a fantasy because you haven’t shared the reality of paying bills or changing diapers with him. The real man is the one who has stood by you for five years.
askApril gave the right advice: you both are just exhausted from parenting and studies. You need to plan ‘Date Nights’ and breathe life back into your primary relationship so that these outside attractions naturally fade away

[Sundus]

Is she ignoring you? Then you should start talking to other girls, too. She should know that you have many other options. Only when she feels afraid of losing you will she leave this ‘fuckboy’ and understand your true value.
Anyway, just by being a gentleman, you will be sitting around waiting for marriage for the rest of your life. Be a little ‘spicy’ and make her feel that you are not a ‘backup option’ or a spare person she can come crying to whenever she wants.
AskApril has also given expert advice that if you were her, an emotional dumping ground and listening to her constant drama, then you will be buried in the ‘friend zone’ forever, and she will never feel romantically attracted to you.

[Sundus]

His jealousy isn’t love for you; it’s just his ego. He doesn’t want anyone else touching his “toy” while he’s out enjoying himself with his actual girlfriend. That’s toxic, not cute.
And April was right to stop the wishful thinking and talk to him directly about monogamy. If he isn’t on board, then move on.
dear
Don’t just “ask” him; give him an ultimatum. Tell him, “Listen, I don’t want this half-baked romance. Either leave your girlfriend and be official with me.” If he hesitates, block him immediately. You weren’t born to be someone’s “side piece.” Put your self-respect above the cuddles.

[Sundus]

He blocked you. Thank God you were ruining your peace by checking his Instagram. He helped you by blocking you so that you don’t have to look at his profile again and again.
At 29, you are clearly looking for marriage. AskApril’s point is simple: stop ignoring the red flags. If you’re the only one putting in the work, the relationship is already dead. you’re just waiting for the official breakup.

[Sundus]

Online ‘romance’ is easy because there are no bills to pay and none of the daily grind to deal with. It’s been a year, and you haven’t even met? This isn’t a relationship; it’s just a long-term distraction.
April is right that you’re in college, surrounded by thousands of people. Why not find someone who is actually there, in the flesh, instead of staring at a screen?

[Sundus]

Your problem is not that you are “hooking up”; the problem is that you have become predictable. If every date ends in the same pattern, the girl starts feeling bored. Romance should have suspense.

[Sundus]

Hi
This girl is “Attention Vampire”, she takes compliments from you and lives with her boyfriend in real life, leave this girl on the “scene” for a while and see how she comes back on the line. It’s just high school; chill out and don’t take these ‘mixed signals’ to heart. AskApril gave expert advice that she likes you. But, April, I ask you this: if she likes Brian, then why does she make fun of him and why does she ignore him in front of her boyfriend?

[Sundus]

They are playing games there, not building a home with you! You’re out here hunting for a soulmate, while they’re just trying to level up.
The only reason they’re flirting is to keep themselves from falling asleep mid-game. To them, you’re just an energy drink, not a life partner.
Gemini said
AskApril was right: if you’re looking for a partner, go to dating apps and stop wasting your time on gaming platforms. In these game apps, men are only there to flirt or to pass the time

[Sundus]

If he can’t talk about career and money, then he’s not a ‘partner’, but just a ‘passenger’ who is having fun in the car of your success. No serious relationship can last without communication. I think you should leave him and focus entirely on your career.

[Sundus]

I don’t think he needs to say anything more now. Put the phone away, go to the gym, and enjoy your life. If he really needs to talk, she’s already unblocked the way, so she should be the one to text first.
And April was absolutely right that dating is like a game, and the only one who wins is the one who has their ‘A-game’ on. If you want to win, you’ll have to show a little attitude and self-respect; being left behind all the time will make the game go away.

[Sundus]

Show him that you’re a spicy, independent girl with a line of guys waiting for your attention. The moment you stop chasing him, he’ll chase you. April was right that it’s only been a month, and he’s probably seeing other people. Play hard to get so he knows you’re not that easy to win over.

[Sundus]

Look, that girl has already made her choice. When someone drops you just because of ‘social status’ or to keep their friends happy, they are showing you exactly how little they value you. Have enough self-respect to stop begging for a spot in her life.
April was absolutely right that you need to give her space and enjoy your life. She might finally realize what she’s missing and start flirting with you again to get your attention back.

[Sundus]

What happened in the past was painful, but don’t use it as a shield. If you’re punishing each other for their actions, you’re not fighting; you’re just wasting time.
I really vibe with April’s advice because she hit the nail on the head with the ‘Sex is Nourishment’ concept. She’s absolutely right; if the spark is dying, you have to bring it back to life with ‘heart attack paddles.’ It doesn’t just happen on its own.

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