[Ricky]

I think you should talk to him first. If you want to bring back the sweetness you used to have, both of you need to want that for it to work.
A relationship improves when the effort is mutual. If you’re the only one thinking about it and trying to make it happen, your efforts may not lead anywhere. That’s why it’s better to have a calm and honest conversation with him about it, so you can understand each other and avoid unnecessary arguments.

[Ricky]

Honestly, that’s the hardest part—when you start thinking about where you went wrong, if you made a mistake, or if something about you wasn’t enough for them to suddenly lose interest.

It’s even harder when there were no signs of conflict or arguments, and then suddenly they just become distant and lose interest.

But change is the only constant in this world, and acceptance is the key for you to move forward.

[Ricky]

It hurts, but you don’t deserve to be hurt. What I mean is, your boyfriend is not a good person because he’s a cheater. And I think people like that don’t deserve your tears or your time.
You deserve to move on properly. You’re a good woman, and this is not your loss. Just think that karma will take care of him in the end.

[Ricky]

Is it still important to know whether he’s serious or just flirting? Why don’t you try inviting him out so you can really get the answers to your questions?
Because honestly, it’s also up to you how you handle it—whether he’s serious or just flirting. It’s up to you how you choose to deal with him, whether you treat it seriously or just as flirting.

[Ricky]

Have you tried talking to him? Maybe he just suddenly got busy. Or you can ask him if you did something that he didn’t like.
If he still doesn’t reply, don’t you have any way to see him in person? At least that way, you can get some closure. You deserve that so you’re not left wondering about what happened.

[Ricky]

In dating apps, especially when you haven’t even met yet and there’s no real commitment, you shouldn’t really expect too much. With how many people are on dating apps, I’m sure you’re not the only one they’re talking to. So it’s not unlikely at all that they might lose interest in you.
What you can do is also talk to other people so you have more options. Don’t expect too much right away so you don’t end up disappointed.

[Ricky]

You don’t really know if someone is truly interested just based on texting. For me, it’s already enough proof that he’s interested in you if he makes the effort to pick you up and drop you off at work.
Just imagine—he’s setting aside time just to pick you up and take you home, and he even lets you know if he can’t make it. That’s more than enough to show that he likes you.

[Ricky]

Don’t doubt yourself. Nothing will be lost if you try—it’s better than regretting not doing anything at all. Sometimes, girls don’t really look at status or appearance; they focus more on personality. As long as you’re a decent person and your intentions are good, there’s nothing wrong with it, and nothing is impossible. Just try so you’ll know.

[Ricky]

I think as long as things are okay between you two, there’s nothing you should really worry about. If he’s still sweet during special occasions, that should already be enough. There are really guys who aren’t that expressive or showy when it comes to sweetness, but deep inside, they actually love you a lot—they’re just not very expressive.

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