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  • in reply to: When should I stop trying and move on from my ex? #59162
    Kitty Cath
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    If that’s really her decision, then no matter how hard you try, there may not be anything else you can do. It might be better to give her the space she wants and hope that she eventually realizes your value and importance to her, and maybe she’ll consider getting back together with you.

    in reply to: How do I know if he likes me? #59160
    Kitty Cath
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    Ask him why he always invites you to eat and even wants you to watch his games. You can also ask him directly if he has feelings for you, especially if you want an honest answer.

    in reply to: Am I overthinking? #59158
    Kitty Cath
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    Hello Daniel, if you have a feeling about it, talk to her and ask her if there is a problem so things can become clearer between you both. That way, if something needs to be changed, you can address the issue right away and work on it together.

    in reply to: Should I confront my ex-boyfriend and my best friend? #59156
    Kitty Cath
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    Maybe they’re right that it would be better if you first hear your best friend’s side so you can feel more satisfied with your decision, whether to avoid her and remove her from your life. As for your ex-boyfriend, just leave him be—you don’t really need him anyway. You can talk to your friend instead for closure, so everything can become clearer for you.

    Kitty Cath
    Member #382,985

    Hi Jolly, I hope you’re doing okay. If you truly love your boyfriend and you know that he’s not the kind of person who would intentionally do something wrong, then maybe you can give him another chance. Perhaps he simply made a mistake and didn’t actually intend for any of this to happen. In a way, he may have lost control over the situation.

    in reply to: How can I save my 11-year relationship? #59152
    Kitty Cath
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    Richard, I have to admit that I’m a bit doubtful about your girlfriend. Sorry, but the way you describe your relationship as being good seems inconsistent with what actually happened. I just can’t understand how someone would choose to believe a person she doesn’t really know. If your relationship was truly healthy and strong, this situation wouldn’t make much sense to me.

    in reply to: Am I wrong for wanting to break up with my girlfriend? #59150
    Kitty Cath
    Member #382,985

    You’re still a student, yet you’re already acting like a sugar daddy. The truth is, you can’t really afford all the luxuries she wants, despite what you say. And even if you could, it’s not a good idea to give her everything she wants just to make her like you.

    Kitty Cath
    Member #382,985

    Hi Keisha, I don’t think it’s a good idea to get involved in their relationship anymore because the more you involve yourself in his life, the harder it will be for you to completely escape your ex. What you should do is ignore him completely. Block him as well so that he won’t be able to message you anymore.

    in reply to: Am I a bad person? #59146
    Kitty Cath
    Member #382,985

    I think the reason you no longer feel guilty is because you found out that, aside from you, she was also pursuing someone else. Because of that, the guilt you once felt about rejecting her gradually disappeared.

    in reply to: Is my girlfriend cheating on me from the beginning? #59144
    Kitty Cath
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    Hi Rex, I hope you’re doing okay. I don’t think she had been cheating on you from the very beginning. After all, what would she have gained from doing that for five years? I think this probably happened somewhere along the way, and because you trusted her so much and your relationship seemed to be going so well, you simply didn’t notice it.

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