I find myself being in a situation, that i could have never dreamed of. I have fallen in love with my ex-wife’s cousin, who has no idea that i feel this way. I desparately want to tell her, but have no idea how she feels about me, if she feels anything at all. The night before my wedding to her cousin, which was about 8 years ago, she told me that she loved me. I’m afraid that if i tell her how I feel, and she doesn’t feel the same, that I would ruin the close, family-like relationship that we presently share. Also, I’m afraid of the problems that It may cause her within her family. I want to tell her because i want to be with her. The feelings i have when i’m around her, are intense. I can’t take my eyes off her. I want to grab her and kiss her. What should i do?