You’re not doing anything wrong — except for pursuing a woman who’s not available to you! 😮
If this was a woman who was interested in you, you’d be doing everything right, but when you send her flowers, and she sees this as a sign of encroachment, she’s really not ready to be in a relationship with you. Her reasons — getting over 2 very bad failed marriages — are understandable for wanting to back off when things start to get intimate and serious. She’s gun shy.
And because she’s a single mother, she has even more reason to be hesitant about getting involved again, since she hasn’t chosen well in her last two husbands, and not only has she gone through the trauma of break ups and divorce, but so has her daughter.
Read the writing on the wall and move on. You deserve someone who is all there for you because you’re doing it all right. Dating is a process, and part of the process means figuring out who’s right and who’s wrong for you. Don’t take the rejection as a big hit — take it as a gift, so that you don’t have to waste any more time on someone who isn’t ready to be with you.
I hope that helps! 🙂