Not sure what to do

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  • #1591
    relationshipa1
    Keymaster

    Im dating a lady thats torn between two of use. I really love her. He does to. She likes differant things about me and him . Its like she has her cake and eating it to. Everybody is holding on .She is seeing both of us part of the time. She sayes she dosen’t no what to do as far as being just with him or me. Id like to no whats getting ready to happen who gets heart at the end and should I just walk away. Easier said than done.

    #11174
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Since you don’t have a crystal ball, all you do is pay attention to what you DO know, and what you DO know is that you’re dating a woman who’s also dating another man. My suggestion to you is that rather than giving her all the power in the relationship, you decide your role in all of this.

    You can try and win her over (read my book called Date Out of Your League, written for men, that you can purchase here [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url], and it will give you the secrets of how to win any woman over). Or, you can date her and continue to date other people, keeping your own search for Ms. Right, brewing. Or, you can decide that you’ve invested enough time in this woman and don’t want to be taken for granted and move on to find someone who wants to date you and only you.

    Those are 3 options, and the choice of which option to pick is yours.

    Let me know how they resonate with you. 🙂

    #11029
    Anonymous
    Participant

    Thanks very much for your input. I feel that I have invested enough time in this relationship and dont feel like it needs to go any further. This has been going on for awile. If I did win her over than it would be a infidelity issue. Im at the age were I dont wont to wast any more time. I dont feel like its enough there to continue.Right nown this relationship is like soft concrete the longer I stay in it the harder it will be to get out. I desided to walk away .Easier said than done. Im going to continue dating , searching for a one mans woman. You folks are Great.

    #11158
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Good for you! You deserve more than to be boyfriend #2!

    Good luck in love. 🙂

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