So I’ve been pretty good friends with this girl for a little while, and I really like her. I have never told her like straight up that I like her, but its not like I do much to hide it, so she likely knows. However, I know that she used to like this other guy who we are both friends with, though he doesn’t like her. Now she tries to act like she doesn’t like him anymore, but I still think she does, which is really annoying because I have ignored or declined other girls who have tried to talk to me or hook up with me because I like her so much.
Now for the more confusing part….whether she likes me at all or not. She sends me like mixed signals all the time. If I were to flirt with her, she will definitely flirt back and if I text other people while I’m around her, she will constantly ask me who and if its a girl she seems to get jealous. But the only time she will really have like a full conversation with me is when it is just me and her or just me and her and other girls. Otherwise, she will usually talk more to whatever other guy we are with (especially if it is the guy I think she still likes). She also will flirt with other guys in the group, though not as much as she flirts with me. And, again, she only really flirts with me when the guy she likes isn’t there.
Overall, I feel like I am #2 on her list, which annoys me as I don’t want to be someone’s second option. So, I’m not sure what I should really do.
Should I just go straight up tell her that I do like her and see what she says, sit back and see what happens, or stop trying and stop ignoring the other girls who try talking to me?
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