My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. About two weeks ago he stopped calling me. The last day I saw him was thursday. I didn’t call or text him friday or saturday. Sunday I called and texted him, he replied to me twice that he was hanging out with his mom, so I left him alone. Through that week I texted him a few times, ( I am trying not to be the psycho girlfriend) One night he told me he was busy, and explained that he had worked late the night before. This friday we talked on the phone for a while and he told me that he had been really busy at work and he was helping his friend with something on Saturday. So, Saturday I left him alone. Today (Sunday) He has not answered any of my calls or texts. I texted him that I knew he was busy but that when he completely ignores me it really hurts my feelings. I have stopped calling or texting him because I really don’t want to be that girl. What should I do? My gut tells me to just leave him alone, that he’ll talk to me when he is ready, but what I really want to do is blow up his phone and make him talk to me.
Why would he pull away from me like this? I have never freaked out on him before when he tells me he is going out with his guy friends, or if he needs space, so I really can’t understand why he wouldn’t just communicate with me. Should I just get used to being single again? Or should I hear him out?
Thanks for the help.
Mandie
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