Falling for someone comming off bad marriage?

In desperate need of advice.

Here is the situation. I am 41 going through divorce, was married for 10 years of which the last 5 or so not really married just living more as friends. Finally decided time to move on.

I just moved to a new town to start a business. I became really good friends over the last month and a half with someone I was working with before the move and started falling pretty hard for her. I offered her a job to come work with me based on her professional skill and my trust and how I liked and get along with her as a person and friend. Not for the fact I really am falling for her. She is coming off a very bad marriage and has that I don’t want to date anyone attitude. I want to be free and enjoy myself. She has been dating for several months so I am not a rebound thing.

So here lies the problem we both have fallen pretty hard for each other. Yesterday spent the day, 12 straight hours over her place on the couch enjoying each other. It was the most passionate day I have every had with someone. Were talking 12 straight hours of fore play and talk. Always stopping at the point of no return. To say the day was incredible would be the understatement of the year. I can easily say for both pf us we both probably never wanted another person so badly in our lives. It was incredible. How we kept ourselves from crossing the point of no return is beyond my scope of reason.

She is so afraid to cross the line and then it not work out and then we have to run a business together and it ruin our incredible friendship. She questions is this a physical only attraction or more. So we came to an agreement that we would wait 3 months before having sex. Impossible really as we can not keep our hands of each other just way to much chemistry and passion. But agreed non the less as I truly want her to be happy and heal from her past marriage.

Today we go into the office its just the two of us there as we have not opened the office yet and just find ourselves lost in one another we can just talk for ever and stair into each other eyes. Never have I or her I would imagine every experienced something this intense. She says she convinced herself when she came to work today it would be strictly business and she could control her feelings and not have feelings for me. Then we start talking and looking into each other eyes and its right back to wanting each other. We had to leave as being alone together is way way way to dangerous as far as moving over that line. So we go shopping. I help her pick out dresses and she helps me pick out come clothes all the time there is that chemistry were we just cant keep our hands of each other. Holding hands briefly looking into each others eyes just non stop passion and chemistry.

Well I can see she is really struggling with these feeling and the fact they conflict what she has convinced herself she wants right now in her live, freedom and a no couple like relationship.

She says she is afraid of hurting me and afraid of ruining our incredible friendship (we can just talk to each other about anything its like we have known each other for years) She keeps saying what if this does not work. Just a ton of what ifs. I understand completely were they come from she is still healing.

So anyway help me with advice. How do we handle this. She is the most incredible person to every walk into my life and I know this thing between us is so right and way more then just a physical thing.